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  • Welcome 2015 by Focusing on YourselfAnother year passes, and another one begins.  As the coming 365+ days approach, many of you will do the same things you did in 2014.  Some of you will change it up.  Some of you will progress, and some of you will regress. My favorite part of being the toughest, no-nonsense life & relationship coach out there is that I get to refrain from padding your egos with bullshit.  I don't do daily/weekly blog updates telling you to smile and it'll get better.  I don't tell you that you will all succeed no matter what life throws at you, because I...

  • The Masculine Mind - Quietly Released on Amazon Available NOW!As this year draws to a close, I am happy to announce the release of my newest book of 35 chapters full of blood, sweat and tears that is available NOW on Amazon by going to amzn.com/B00RC9L0RO.  Not simply a book about Dating and Relationships, this book covers massive ground ranging from self-improvement to career choices, educational costs to what you have to discuss with your significant other before moving in.  From the official introduction, excerpted below: There are life lessons out there that as we get older, we think about sharing.  Life lessons fathers did give/ should have given to...

  • Secrets of the Game now available on AmazonI'm happy to report that Secrets of The Game:  What Alpha Males, Pickup Artists and Beautiful Women Never Tell about Love vs. Lust, Marriage vs. Bachelor Life is now available for sale on Amazon in both Kindle and Paperback formats! There are a ton of books on marriage out there, and there are a ton on pickup up women and living the "player lifestyle," but few get to the core on how to achieve the peak in both realms, and more importantly, how to decide which is right for you!  Targeted towards men, also includes an in-depth analysis on what truly...

  • Dating in Los Angeles - Is the City the Problem or is it You?For those living the single life in many larger cities, you find yourself with a myriad of options, something touted as one of the benefits vs. being in a smaller town. However, many also push smaller towns as containing people who are more grounded, with better values and such.  Maybe there’s a little bit of truth in both sides. There are repeat issues clients have brought up to me, and things anyone can notice from being the spectator on the street walking by any cafe where people are huddled outside breaking apart the situations they find themselves in.  Does this...

  • An Ultimate Dating Tip for 2014 - Don't Forget the Real World!It never ceases to amaze me how people have become so technologically adept at meeting others, starting from the days of video personals to online dating sites to now location-based iPhone apps where in a few simple swipes, you can be on your way to meeting that attractive stranger down the street.  However, what surprises me the most is how many people are foregoing real-life conversations in their day-to-day life where they see people they would want to get to know, yet are completely hesitant in having friendly, maybe flirtatious conversation to see where things can progress, choosing the 'safety'...

  • The Changing Times of In-Person InteractionI was out a few weeks ago where I ran into some friends of friends, and I was amazed that were in a social atmosphere with a good ratio of men to women, yet these guys were glued to their phones the whole time. They weren't responding to texts or emails per se, or looking at sports scores.  No, they were jumping aboard the Tinder crazy, where they simply scroll through pictures of women in their area and basically do a simple 'like' or 'dislike' action, and if the women respond favorably back to the guy who liked her profile they...

  • 7 Reasons Mini-Book Flies to Top of Amazon Relationships CategoryThank you to everyone who downloaded my new Kindle release, 7 Reasons Women Don't Have The Relationship They Want So Badly, last week on Amazon as it hit the #1 most downloaded spot in the Relationships category for the niches of Love and Romance and Interpersonal Relations.  The book is a hard-hitting look at why women don't have their dream relationships. What are the reasons I go over in the book?  Here are the chapter titles: 1. Your friends have lied to you 2. Your significant others have not always been straight-up with you 3. The media has misled you 4. You have valued the wrong stuff 5. You can...

  • The Match.com Series of PostsDid you guys happen to see my various posts on Match.com's Happen Magazine?  I was one of the featured dating/love/relationship experts commenting on a variety of topics: Love-Life Gossips to Avoid Key takeaway - make sure to speak to your partner more about your relationship worries/problems than random outsiders (or even those you are close to)! How Men Reset a Bad date Key takeaway - make sure you know the real reason the date is going badly - is it because of environment, the other person, or your mood?  It's amazing how things can change so easily sometimes by just changing the location and...

  • 7 Reasons Women Don't Have The Relationship They Want So BadlyYes, my newest E-Book is now available! Buy it now from Amazon Today! This is a book of brutal truth for women, by a man. No fluffy love advice.  No dating and relationship games.  Just CHT (cold, hard truth).  The main purpose - to help you understand why you may not be in the dream relationship you really want, and instead find yourself stuck with the guys who aren't even close to what you feel you deserve. If you're ready for a change, buy the book today or grab it when it's FREE on Amazon (June 26-June 30, 2013)....

  • Ignoring Social Media for a Bit, and Being in the MomentYou can look for any dating coach or love coach in the world to help you get rid of bad habits, but the reality of the matter is that you control your actions, not anyone else.  One of the hardest things a relationship coach gets exposed to is showing someone how to change the way they live to be more in the moment, less in their head, and less on their phones/social media! For all the good that has come into the world with the spread of social media, there has also been quite a bit of damage. In fact, media...

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